Why So Against Black?

A common debate in this wedding section is wheter or not a "little black dress" is approiate for a wedding. I say it is. I hate when people say it is disrespectful to the bride and groom and their marriage.

I think black is a great choice for a wedding. A wedding is a formal event and a little black dress is classy, sophiscated and graceful. It is also slimming and flattering on just about any body type, hair or skin color. Black does not represent death to me, but rather formality.

I mean, isn't a simple and understated black dress better then an unflattering, and tacky colored dress. Some people think wearing a color of any kind, is better then wearing black. I beg to differ.

Also, I think it's a regional debate. I'm from the Northeast,up here, we associate black clothing w/ formalwear/business attire. So, a black dress is often viewed as a safe piece of clothing to wear to a wedding.

So, what do you think; Have you worn black to a wedding? Where r u frm

Why So Against Black?

It's fine. Hell, my bridal party is wearing black! I like it. People who think otherwise are so silly that they are not worth the argument. Let 'em think it's disrespectful. It's their problem not yours.

Why So Against Black?

Times have changed. You can wear black in the Summer. You can wear white in the Winter and you can wear black to weddings now too.

I'm from North Carolina, USA.

Why So Against Black?

I'm in canada and black is basically the only thing I wear to weddings. It's not disrespectful at all. I think it's even more disrespectful to wear white, it's like copying the bride. All the guys are going to be in black suits, I'm sure it's completely fine if you wear black and you definitely won't be the only one.

Why So Against Black?

perfect for an evening affair! not a june bride outdoorsy thing, originally from n.j.

Why So Against Black?

black is traditionaly a color representing death rather that life love etc.

Why So Against Black?

i agree with you on the fact that it does look classy it does... but i think tradition is bigger and also the symbolism the color white has, especially regarding wedding stuff.. it symbolizes purity, the pure state the bride is 'supposed' to arrive at the altar with... but im with you on what you say... black looks very good... good observation :)

Why So Against Black?

Wear whatever you want as long as you don't look like a hooker it's okay. You should want the bride to be the prettiest but she should be to her groom anyway. I had to wear a little balck dress once because I couldn't afford to buy one and really wanted to go. I borrowed a shawl from a friend and it worked out great.

Why So Against Black?

yes, actually, i wore black to the last two weekings i went to

i'm from Ohio.. and i'm also getting married here in about 3 months...

i was actually thinking about puting little things on the invitations saying "please only dress in black or brown"

that way my WHITE dress could stand out :)

Why So Against Black?

I wore black to a semi-formal, night-time wedding in May. I'm from North Carolina.

I think its just fine nowadays to wear black to a wedding - just not to a daytime wedding in the spring or summer!

Why So Against Black?

I'm from Michigan. My dear friend was married in December and chose black, white, silver and gold as her colors. I was matron of honor and she selected a beautiful black strapless dress with a white top for the wedding party. It looked great on all of us, no mean feat since we had very different body types.

The best part is that I would also feel comfortable wearing the dress again to a formal event.

Since the dress was found in a wedding catalogue, I think wearing black to a wedding is definately acceptable now.

Why So Against Black?

Black is fine to wear for a guest, but the bride needs to stand out. The whites or creams are a symbol of purity %26amp; it is a new start %26amp; a new life that now beings with 2 people. But getting married is more than just about the day it's about a marriage %26amp; all the stuff that goes with it. Life is never the same %26amp; getting all caught up in the moment is fun but reality soon kicks in. I wish you all the very best %26amp; a blessed marriage. Melbourne Australia

Why So Against Black?

You can wear your black dress to a wedding. That belief was old school superstition and it went out with the bop.

The little black dress is the new "freak em dress" (I am reffereing to Beyonce's new song.

When you get to the wedding, you will see several people rocking their black dresses.

Why So Against Black?

I live in PA and I have worn black to a wedding. As long as you aren't wearing white, I assumed you could wear any color. The bride should stand out if everyone wears mildly dark colors. A little black dress is definately formal enough.

Why So Against Black?

i think its ok to wear it unless the bride/groom says thats there is a certain dress code or dress colorother then that i say wear what u want and to hell with what others think

Why So Against Black?

I've never seen it done, but I'm from South Texas where we don't really wear black anyway because of the heat plus because of the culture clothes are alot brighter down here.

I think it would be perfectly fine though to wear a nice little black dress. Maybe not the long sheath type dresses with the black hats, because those tend to be worn by grievers. But black is always a safe color to wear to any event.

Why So Against Black?

A little black dress, when properly accessorized, is a wonderful thing to wear to a wedding. It shows class, and is not disrespectful in any way. I think back in the old days it may have been , but since we have evolved quite a bit since our parents time, it is no longer a bad thing.

I live in the midwest, and i have seen black worn to plenty of weddings. If i had one i would for sure!

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Why So Against Black?

I actually totally agree with you. I don't think is it rude to wear it either. If fact, I have all my bridesmaids and junior bridesmaids in long black gowns. It's a very constant color, flattering and doesn't attract neg. attention. I would rather a guest wear a little black dress any day than have them show up in some neon orange get-up that is going to make everyone wonder "Who is THAT???". I was raised in Florida (but live in NY now) and both areas see the little black dress as something you always wear to a formal affair. It's professional, stylish and chic. What other color would you wear??? As for someone who said you'd look like a hooker? - I have no idea where that came from! It's a black dress, not a patented leather dress! lol

Why So Against Black?

I agree with you... I live in CA but have not worn black to a wedding, but then I have attended only a few weddings in my life (I am 17). Many people associate black with sadness and death, but I agree that black more represents class and formality. Like you said, it looks clean and sharp on almost any body size/shape.

Why So Against Black?

I think it would be alright.

To offset the black, you should probably accesorize using some color. I agree with you that black is formal and almost always appropriate, but many people do associate black with death, depression, or unhappiness. Adding a nice scarf, jewelry, and/or bag that does have color might help the gossipping geese from squawking.

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My MOH wore black, I think it's fine.

And I'm from the west coast

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I totally agree with you about guests. Black is great! Also, even for the wedding party I wouldnt see a big problem with it. My Mother-in-Law wore a black kimono (she is Japanese) with a gorgeous colorful obi, it was really classy.

Whether a guest or in the wedding party, I would still say dont do all black... add at least a dab of color with a clutch, shoes, or even jewelry.

From PA, now in Japan

Why So Against Black?

From Western Canada. Black is not fine for a wedding - it is sombre and sad. Weddings are meant to be happy occasions, and the guests' garments should reflect this - the couple should be looking out into a sea of colour!

The little black dress is fine for many other occasions, but one should not think about it as safe for a wedding.

Just another opinion, and I don't think it has anything to do with regionalism. Maybe just good sense.